Egla Ceno Reflects on Parashqevi Simaku Case: “Better to Be Hated Than to Be Pitied”
Egla Ceno, the well-known actress, has shared her thoughts on the case of singer Parashqevi Simaku, providing a deep analysis of emotional reactions from people. According to Egla, pity is a feeling that weakens and hurts, while hate can provoke a reaction that restores one’s dignity.
“The Parashqevi case reinforced this belief for me: It’s better to be hated than to be pitied! Hate at least stirs your ego and makes you react. Pity hurts, it numbs you! It shatters even the little dignity that keeps you standing,” Egla wrote in her public comment.
She explained that hate often stems from the inferiority complex of the person who hates, someone who cannot accept the qualities they see in others. Pity, according to her, is a painful reflection of reality that cripples one’s strength and leaves behind only a deep emptiness.
“Everyone loves you when you’re insignificant, when you don’t have your own stance, when you live for the approval of others, when you’re a pushover or when you’re dead,” she added, shedding light on the superficiality of many reactions in the virtual world.
Egla’s comment emphasizes the deeper emotional dynamics at play in society, particularly in the face of criticism and public perception, encouraging individuals to recognize their own worth and not be swayed by external validation.
